how often do you find a young man (MAN for crying out loud) not able to tidy up his room, greet his elders, be nice to his sister. NOT very OFTEN, but yet, i dio one right in my house. I mean, it may be due to his brought up wadever that he doesn do any housework, throw his things about, be so messy that im certain a pig would snort at his room in disgust. omg, look at his room! (which was initially MY study!) He has one study table with cupboards for books, and dozens of drawers, one closet totally new and bought entirely for him, and half of a book shelf which is rightfully mine (and i told him to clear out of it...) and he's still throwing everything around. WTH its my home not HIS! I feel like screaming in his face man, does he intend to let my mom, tired after work, and go work her ass off to clean up his room for hiM??? my mom will not do it, i wont agree to that! what freaking right does he have to make MY MOM work for HIM? in ur fucking dreams sucker!
and my dad, din he like promise to educate him, be stern and forceful when he does smth wrong, when i offered to use his hp to send a moderately stern msg saying "clean up your room", he insist that i use "please". TO HELL WITH THAT LOR! If i had to beg him to do that, I would more happily choose to mince his head off with that chopper. LIKE HELL!! Its so freaking unfair, esp when my dad already knows this guy has been brought up totally wrong, self-centred and selfish, he doesnt want to be stern to him juz because he's lost his father and does not have any kin with him here. That IS pitible, but this is a different thing!!! I dont see anibd asking me to tidy up my room with a "please"? I'd sooner get a beating before i get that. this is totally ridiculous la.
omg
i cant bear for the 2 yrs to end and this sucker leaves my life entirely. Im not being super unfriendly or out-casting him because he sort of like took away half a daddy. He doesn deserve it omg, to be treated with respect, even though he is older than me by a couple of months. WOuld u respect someone who doesn respect your parents, cant rmb to turn off the tap after use, doesn giv a damn abt leaving the door unlocked and exposing my entire family to danger??
he sux, and i have to admit my dad is not making any difference at all even though he said he would. my dad is such a procrastinator, he always waits for a "chance", like hell this chance is gonna come soon...this bloody guy whether intentionally or not has been planning his schedule totally different from us such that he doesnt have to see our faces. and my dad continues patiently to wait for that precious chance to come.
if i were my dad, being stern is not being mean, being all strict is the one n only way to help this nephew of his, and he's still trying to be just be nice. He has totally pissed off my mom on this, and she doesn bother herself with the issue anymore, and belive it or not, he's pissing me off too. when that fateful moment comes, and i snaps, i will make hell for the fucking asshole.